I'm asking for help because I can't do everything myself." "You cook, I clean. I'm married to adhd and asperger for 13 years Not easy but very possible! My husband says I am his dream girl and he wouldnt change a thing about me.
This is our agreement." "You can't be around chemicals, so you have to sweep, vacuum, and do the laundry." Getting emotional usually frustrates and/or shuts my husband down. Sure we didnt know I had as when we got married or for years but it sure helps to know and learn how to communicate better.* Anonymous said...
This comment wouldn't bother you or even spew out your mouth or even come as a thought in your head... Everyone's wired differently and marriage is a journey, a struggle and hard work but also a fantastic experience.
Keep in mind too that Aspies can vary greatly in the extent and nature of the problems, characteristics or symptoms that they display.
This fact alone means that treating AS needs to be targeted as much as possible for each unique person.
above lists some of the symptoms that Aspies may exhibit.
It is important to understand that each case is unique and the specific asperger symptoms experienced by each person with AS will also be unique.
Women who understand what it's like to be married to someone with Aspergers - no one else can even begin to understand the challenge. She is trying to understand and reach out for help. There were some arguments that I now understand were down to mutual misunderstanding from our brains being "wired differently" .
Many of the people at the adult Asperger's support groups I go to comment that their diagnosis made their marriages to their NT partner much happier. It points out that both people in the relationship need to work at understanding the other. Or times when we both felt a little unloved or uncared for because we didn't recognise the way the other was expressing their love.
that you can use as part of your preliminary investigations into AS.
There are distinguishing factors and characteristics that set children apart when they suffer from one of the known autism spectrum disorders, specifically in this case Asperger’s Syndrome.
Once I learned to take a step back, breathe, and think of a reasonable argument in a calm, low tone, things got SO much better. I'll talk from your hubsnd's perspective, if you'll permit.
Although a person with AS can tell they've angered or disappointed you, they rarely understand why.
My partner has aspergers and honestly its not much of a relationship.